Tom Zuba is a truly amazing father, author, grief guide and inspirational speaker. After the deaths of his daughter, wife and son within a 12 year span, he has experienced the gamut of emotions. He was able to transform his pain into acceptance and gain a great love and compassion because of these trials. Tom explains that he didn’t “lose his family-that he know where they are.” He chooses to believe that they accepted their situation before they were born. As he has helped thousands of people through their grief, he allows them to feel every emotion, to allow them to progress in their own time and space. He has chosen to not be a victim and to let life happen FOR him.